I’ve had it explained to me that a woman with lower self esteem (as PSP’s often have) may excuse or ignore the signs that the man in her life might be gay. Its almost as if the gay man inside of them recognizes the connection they could have with a PSP, but somewhere things get confused and suddenly they are seeing her romantically even though they are sexually attracted to men. I love my gay male friends, they are all so different some are very professional, some are more creative and they all bring different things to my life… but as a PSP there is one type of gay man that I have to warn you about:Ĭall it what you will “Closet Case”, “Suspect” or “Down Low” it is my observation that, these men often date big women. As a PSP it can also provide regular male companionship (and a stand-by date, if needed).
Its a natural pairing of two groups who are often on the outside looking in. I feel like there is an unspoken bond between gay men and PSP’s (Plus Size Princesses). To a certain extent, I agree… I can remember a few awkward moments on New York City dance floors when a random “gay in shinning armor” would come to my rescue and dance with me, saving me from the sadness of feeling invisible. I think it was Rosanne Barr who said “If it weren’t for gay men, fat chicks would never have anyone to dance with”.
